Call me when you reach.
Those were my explicit instructions to him as I dropped him off at the airport. Of course I know my kid well enough to know that he would never call. For some reason he hates phone calls. (Perhaps that reason is me. Can hating phone calls be hereditary?)
What I did expect were a few WhatsApp messages.
It’s the first time that he’s left the country alone. Well traveling with a bunch of strangers escorted by some professor who I don’t know, is still classified as travelling alone in my book of parenting. Expecting a few updates is not too unreasonable, right?
Here is what I get…
Day 1: I’m here. The wifi sucks.
Day 2: Still alive.
Night 3: All in good time.
The last being in response to my barrage of messages (3 actually) asking how his day went.
He’s coming back on Day 8. By then I would have probably exited WhatsApp just to keep my phone safe.
I’m tempted to play the sentiment card and ask questions like – What if Manado is hit by an earthquake or a tsunami? How will I know of your welfare? But I shan’t. Knowing him, the response would probably be – Don’t worry, you will hear about it on the news. He can be very infuriating that way.
His father worries too. But he has a silver lining he hangs on to at moments like this. ‘You know he gets his attitude from you‘ he annoyingly provokes. I don’t understand the man. After twenty three years of marriage who doesn’t learn that it is unwise to prod a simmering lioness!
In response to Linda’s Stream of Consciousness Saturday prompt – call.